Sub Conscious: Moods

dom/dommes have it easy. :-) when they feel randy, they grab themselves one of their subs. when they feel lethargic, they take it easy.

subs however? when they feel randy, they have to cope until their dom/dommes come around to the same place (and then pray they are not into tease and denial that day). and when they feel lethargic but their dom/domme feels randy, guess who wins?

or take those of us who don't always operate from our sub sides. i spend most of my time at work in a very dom state of mind - that's my job. so an instruction from my domme can come out of the blue: Who Does She Think She .. oh, yeah, she's SWMBO(She Who Must Be Obeyed).

but i'm not complaining. far from it. (and i say that not just because i value my backside and am not a pain slut.)

being 'deprived' waiting for my domme to feel her oats? her control of the situation just drives me higher.

being forced to obey an instruction when i'm on my dom side or lethargic or the designated activity is of no interest whatsoever at that moment? that just drives home that she *really* is in charge - my mood or frame of mind doesn't control. i may get no 'charge' from her control at that moment -- it may even be a total hassle. but later, when i am in my sub side? that memory of her control and the knowledge that her control is not a mirage dependent on my mood are amazingly powerful.

so here's to dom/dommes who exercise their control no matter the mindset of their subs. life is far sweeter for it.